| Location | Birkenhead |
| Age | 31 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1969 |
| Date of Death | 7/2000 |
| Visitors | 2,005 since 27/01/2008 |
| Creator |
stephen was my second eldest child he has 2 brothers tommy and anthony and 2 sisters natasha and
chantel who was murdered herself in 2004. just 4 years later. stephen was a machine computor
operater in a huge factory in wallasey. stephen has a daughter called niomi she is now 13. stephen
was always well groomed he had such a lot of pride. he was 6ft tall with very dark hair and vivid
blue eyes. stephen loved to jogg and liked fishing. his music was fleetwood mac ,the doors,the
beatles he loved his amstrad computor and that was stephen easy pleased his computor and his music
and that was that.stephen loved his family we were his life along with niomi his true love he adored
her he was a very good dad. stephen wore his big soft heart on his sleeve. he was so kind and
careing he loved me so much and often told me so. he would do anythink for me nothink was to much
for him to do. we called stephen our protector.coz thats wot he was. i adored him THE TRUE MAN.
stephen lived with his partner shelly niomi mum. but after 6 years shelly ended it all. stephen was
devastated. he loved her but shelly did love stephen it had just gone sour.
stephen came back home and stayed there for 2 years untill he got his flat, he never recovered from
looseing shelly. and would drift in and out of depression. but he started to try and rebuild his
life he always saw his daughter each week end.
stephen was a very private person and a bit shy really wiyh old fashioned morals. he had that
valuable thing called respect. god how i loved him. he met a woman who had befriended him called
elizebeth she was just that a friend coz stephen wasnt ready for any relationship. but he was glad
for her company.
elizebeth started to act a bit obbsesive and stephen told her not to call to his flat anymore. 6
months later she knocked out of the blue stephen had been in all night with his friends haveing a
drink. elizebeth waited for his friends to go and while stephen was asleep on the sofa she killed
him and got rid of all the evidence and left him dyeing. she called the police and by the time they
arrived stephen was dead.
elizebeth found she pleaded guilty of manslaughter and under diminished responsability was given 3
years we were devastated. we were a broken team our world had been torn apart. my other children
were destroyed.
chantel found it particulary hard to cope with. i was lost and felt i had lost my whole world. 3
years for the life of a man so wonderfull so big so strong so beutifull in soul. my 2 sons were
never the same again none of us are and never will be. stephen was a son i was proud to call mine he
loved us we always came first. i am and always will be lost and god how i ache for his hug and kiss
he would give me every time he said good bye. god bless his loverly soul.
Teddy bear Hugs for Stephen
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FROM STEPHEN
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On this Mothers Day I find it
very very hard,
For I can not give to you
a special gift or card,
Because I am now an Angel
I live in heaven above,
But my Darling Mother
I always send my LOVE
We have a bond between us
that nothing can ever break,
I will stay beside you
Thats a promise I now make
You have always been so special
my darling Mother of mine,
I will go on loving you
Until the end of time.
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Love you always Mum
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Lord above please hear my prayer ~
Look after Stephen with tender care ~
Hug him please don`t leave him alone ~
Love him as we did when he was at home
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A letter from Heaven
Mum did you think of me today?
Mum did you cry?
Mum I know that it is hard for you
And can't understand why
Mum please don't be angry with god
It was time for me to leave
I know that they are questions
And answers you can't believe
But know Mum I'm okay
And never left your side
Do you hear the things I say?
Can you find the things I hide?
The only thing I cannot take away
Is the pain your heart feels
So I asked the lord for one wish
To help your heart to heal
He told me to think carefully
About what I could say or do
To show how much you mean to me
To show how much I miss you too
I thought of all the little things
That used to make us laugh
And I thought of all the prayers you have
Just to have me back
I knew just what my wish would be
It was there in front of me
A beautiful dove God gave to me
To show me of his love
I whispered to the dove
I told him how to find you
I place him on a rainbow
So mum when you think of me
And cannot bear the pain
Look for the gift I sent to you
And allow my memory to remain
I am every laugh you have
In every hug you share
I am the one who know your soul
And want you Mum to let go
Take with you all the memories
Of the life you made
And remember I never meant to cause
You so much pain
So when you need to feel my touch
Or to know that I'm still there
Find the gift I sent from above
And see it in all my love
When you see the feather on the ground
Know that I'm still around
Love always Carol xxxxxxxxx
this is for your mum (just for today )
Just for today I will try to live through the next 24 hours and not expect to
get over my sons death, but instead learn to live with it just one day at a time
Just for today I will remember my sons life, not his death, and bask in
the comfort of all those treasured days and moments we shared.
Just for today I will forgive all the family and friends who didn't help or
comfort me the way I needed them to. They truly did not know how.
Just for today I will smile no matter how much I hurt on the inside, for
maybe if I smile a little, my heart will soften and I will begin to heal.
Just for today I will reach out to comfort a relative or friend of my son,
for they are hurting too, and perhaps we can comfort each other.
Just for today I will free myself from my self-inflicted burden of guilt, for
deep in my heart I know if there was anything in this world I could have done
to save my son from death, I would have done it.
Just for today I will honour my sons memory by doing something with another
child because I know that would have made my own child proud.
Just for today I will offer my hand in friendship to another bereaved parent,
for I do know how they feel.
Just for today when my heart feels like breaking, I will stop and remember
that grief is the price we pay for loving and the only reason I hurt is
because I had the privilege of loving so much.
Just for today I will not compare myself with others. I am fortunate to be
who I am and to have had my son for as long as I did.
Just for today I will allow myself to be happy, for I know that I am not
deserting him by living on.
Just for today I will accept that I did not die when my son did, my life
did go on, and I am the only one who can make that life worthwhile once more.
Just for Today
night night xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Now the time has come
For me to say good-bye
Please don't judge me harshly
Or always sit and cry
This highway ride will lead me
Straight into the sky
Into the blue of heaven
Peace mirrored in my eye
My cycle has all the power
For a journey to this land
No troubles do await me
God has touched me with his hand
I've found for what I'm seeking
The past now just folklore
Patiently its been waiting
I will search not ever more
Think of me and know I am with you,
Think of me and smile.
Think of me and know that our parting
Is only for a while.
On the days that you feel so desperate
To see my smiling face,
Just believe in your heart I am with you
And that I'm in a beautiful place.
So think of me and remember,
All the memories in your heart,
And believe and know that this is true,
We are never really apart.
Love to you Angel & Your Loved ones xxxx
hi stephen xxxxx
If your sorrow can be lessened,
In some warm and special way,
By knowing that so many share,
In your loss with you today.
And if it brings you comfort,
When others show they care,
Please know that thoughts are with you,
And remember they are there.
HI BABES XXXXX
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Gone is the face we loved so dear,
Silent is the voice we loved to hear;
Too far away for sight or speech,
But not too far for thought to reach.
Sweet to remember who once was here
And who, though absent, is just as dear♥
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MY FRIEND
People say there sorry
And they mean it from the heart
But to understand your heartache
They couldn't even start
To have a loss that you have had
Is too much to understand
We see it and we feel for you
But it's only second hand
You’re the ones who are suffering
And we’re the ones who care
But if there is anything we can do
Call us, we'll be there
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